Day #30: Who are you?

Well, isn't this a loaded question?

Ok:

I'm Kesley Elizabeth Gibbs, 5'2", red hair, greenish blue eyes, lots of freckles, petite. I like to have a few close friends that I see often, I like having my boyfriend (but being single is not the worst thing in the world). I need time for myself, I can't be around the same person day in and day out (except for who I'm dating) or I start to feel like I'm being smothered. I love to dance and miss it so very very much. Some may say I have a rebellious streak in me but thats far from the truth, I'm just trying to figure out what works for me and what doesn't, what I believe in and what I don't, what/who makes me happy, aka who I am. I am very sensitive. You'll know if you've upset me. I don't like people being upset with me; I would rather someone directly confront me rather than make me tip toe around and try and figure it out (if it becomes too much of a game I'll just bail). I try to be mindful of others and not selfish but if it comes down to doing something that will make me unhappy I usually won't do it; respect yourself before you can respect others. I am like a mama bear when it comes to those I love especially Mariah. I have a tendency to flip out occasionally over silly things lol people who don't know me think I'm really pissed but really I'm just being silly or blowing off steam. I love doing silly weird things in public or in private, and I absolutely hate when the person I'm with gets all shy and embarrassed (this is me take it or leave it). I love being weird and loud and goofy with my mom sister and kels, we're pretty much crazy. I also have terrible road rage haha! I truly care about other people and their feelings and happiness, I believe everyone deserves to have someone listen to and love them unconditionally. I'm a romantic. I believe in real, true, head over heels falling in love :) but I don't believe love is easy, it takes hard work, sacrifice, selflessness, and sometimes having to look at and change parts of yourself that you may not want to admit are present. But I believe that if you are both trying and giving %100 of yourself you can stay in love and be together forever :) When I get married, thats it. No divorce. You made a commitment to this person and it is your responsibility and duty to fulfill that- you can work it out (there are exceptions). I work full time and go to school full time. I love learning, as corny as that sounds lol I love the sense of accomplishment I get from doing well in school and supporting my education by working. I am constantly learning more about myself and what makes me happy. After 2 or 3 years I feel like I'm finally coming into my own and its pretty awesome. Happiness is something that comes from within and I'm always striving to achieve that :)

Love,
Kxoxo